Last Friday, I bought my grave --- Recently, it is "arboricultural burial" that become popular.
I, myself, am not interested in funeral and grave, however I have a manner that "I don't have to apply my policies with cases of my father and mother.
To begin with, I don't like "tombs," which are organic silicate minerals (stones).
I think that the reason is trauma of memories of Montparnasse Cemetery in Paris.
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In comparison, "arboricultural burial" is good.
I like a feeling of "Return to the soil", and "I am expanding in the earth" carefreely.
"Why I have to continue to close in funerary urn like housing complex, after my death ?"
"Why I have to continue to open my private information(my name, death of date, and age), after my death?"
I really think "No kidding".
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I said before that graveyards are going to be residential or vacant land in 50~100 years in general.
Our country with a high rate of natural disasters, happens earthquakes, floods, landslides, and other disasters on a daily basis, and graveyards that no longer be visited by people will return to empty land.
I think it is good.
The limitations of our scope are grandparents.
About the older ancestor that we had never seen, for us, it is harsh to have to be interested in them( I don't know about Imperial and famous families).
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The graveyard I bought for my father and mother, that is just a 20cm x 20cm piece of ground --- are advertised as "Eternal memorial service".
Ebata: "Is it about 50 years in real?"
When I asked a person in charge, she said "'about 100 years' is our target".
I was surprised to hear it with saying "it is long".
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In fact, we have already bought the graveyard of parents-in-law, my wife and me.
The distance between the graveyard of my parents and ours was just 24 meters in straight, measured by GoogleMap.
We had no chance to meet each other in lifetime, however, I think after our death, we are able to held a party --- even in the under ground.