Anyone talk to us "listen carefully to other people's opinions", As I know, I don't know the person who can do it.

Even then, well, some kinds of people, like "a people who believes the relationship between blood-type and character" or "a propagator who comes to my house" might do it.

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Above all, "to listen carefully to other people's opinions" is a negative phase of "to take the initiative in solving problems"

Some people might say to me "that is too extreme", however in my case, that is it.

Because, I can tell you

"I had not written any patent application before even if I listened to other people's opinion carefully"

Incidentally, I am a self-styled "patent makers at Ozenji hill" who has a record of number of applications of more than 100 (including divisional application, priority of Paris Convention)

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However, "listening to people's opinions carefully" is important as "pretending".

"I am seriously listening to your story" that "pretending" is very important. It is the basic technology for living in society.

To avoid getting involved in unnecessary troubles, You should improve "pretending" technology.

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Let's go back to the board.

"Listening to people's story" is painful - at least I feel pain.

The situation that we have to get something different from our way of thinking, even temporarily, is the same as pushing disliked food forcibly.

For example, It is difficult for Japanese to eat "insects" on a daily basis, no matter how it is nutritious excellent food ingredient.

"Listening people's opinions" is, after all, "eating insects".

Therefore , "listening to people's opinions carefully" is useful and important.

"Without the courage to eat insects, it is impossible to get the paradigm of" insect food "into myself.

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In short, the problem of "listening to people's story carefully" is to inherit the problem of "painful vs useful".

So, the best strategy for this problem is

"Listen to half of people's story"

And, many of us are doing its optimal strategy on a daily basis.

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"You can listen to my story at less than half the level (or ignore 100%)."