I distinguish that

a person who complains about people's love affair "a opposition party"

from

a person who is practicing their own love affair "a ruling party"

In any situation, there is no reason that the opposition party can win against the ruling party.

Love affair is a thing to "do", not a thing to "watch".

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I don't like

the "opposition" of love affair who shows the luxury and avoids scratches with parenthesis, from the height and safe place.

I would rather like that

the "ruling" of love affair who shows them ugly, clunky, pitiful, disconsolate, and hopeless, and keep suffering the pain.

I think that the latter is included in a winning group.

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However this story is for teenagers only.

The ruling party of married person is a bother for me.