About the yesterday's diary, I was talking with the second daughter(SD).

SD:"Do you take care about adults"?

Ebata: "That is not true, but psychological thresholds will go down"

SD: "What is a difference between children and adults?"

Ebata: "There are quite a lot of means to escape from suicide (systems and institutions), but children do not know it well, teachers do not tell them (*1). Even if children know it, they have no experience using that means"

"Child does not come to school" means that the teacher is useless. In addition, they were accused of lack of management skills.

SD: "Adults are same aren't they?"

Ebata:"For adults", it is lack of study. Because they are living longer than children, there should have been time to study it on their own."

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In addition, parents tend to push a message their child "Anyway you go to school" with saying "If you really do not like it, you can take a day off."

I think that this phrase of "if you don't like it", will give a "death" to the child finally.

When your boss told you, "If you do not want to do this job, you do not have to do this work", can you say "I did not want to do this job, so I did not do this work"? How many people can say this phrase in Japan?

Or, do not you know really, the guardian ?

Though you are an adult.

Even I, who has been continued being said as "insolent and arrogance", can not say such things (rarely).

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Therefore, the phrase that parents should say to children who are uneasy about behavior, are following.

"Take a day off today! This is an order! If you go to school today, I will never make you go to school again!"

You yells like this, and gives your child an excuse to help them.

Let's become such a guardian.

each other.