I once tried to help a man who had fallen and was yelled at, 'Don't do anything unnecessary!
It was quite a shock, so I remember it.
However, I too am of the nature that I can't honestly ask for help from others, so I can understand the mind a little bit.
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A few years ago, I saw a man lying in a train station.
Everyone seemed concerned, but did not seem to reach out specifically for help.
As a rule, I am on their side, but I still crouched down near the fallen man and said a few words.
"If you wish, we can help you. Which is better for you?"
I have decided to "ditch" anyone who refrains here.
I do not offer second chances.
This is the "Ebata First & Final Call Protocol".
Incidentally, at that time, the man asked me to 'call the station staff,' so I called the station staff and just walked away.
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I always ask, at least once, the following questions.
"Shall I give you a seat?"
"Shall I call an ambulance?"
"Shall I get you some drinking water?"
"If you need help, I will give it to you."
However, if they 'decline' on their own terms, I will walk away.
(If no response is received, the decision will be based on the situation)
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However, an exception to this protocol is made with regard to "a person attempting to commit suicide by jumping into a train station".
If she/he does not comply, I will stop them, even by force.
"If you're going to jump in, make sure it's the next train after the one I'm on."