(Continuation from yesterday)

"I don't drink any alcohol in such a place"

"I don't talk about marriage and love"

"I don't ask deeply about the work of others"

"I don't say / hear any opinions about politics or principles"

"Don't criticize the person in front of me, in any occasions"

In addition, I notice that

"When I have to talk about myself, I will talk about my mistakes, not boast"

"Even if I hear an opinion that I disagree with, I evade with saying "is that so?"

I am careful of the above, further, I do realtime self-check of

"Am I now making a statement that offends someone?"

Even if It may be useless effort.

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In such an event, the ultimate way of being neither a victim nor a perpetrator is “missing”.

However, I think that there are cases where "missing" is difficult.

Therefore, as their middle ground, I am proposing,

"Forty-nine days, One round, Visit to the Obon Tomb by SKYPE"

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I think that people who can enjoy the dinner scene of all their relatives in the movie 'Summer Wars'

can make them enjoy in their mind easily,

I feel jealous with not disgusting, but serious.