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2019-01-29 Ebata: "Revenge" - this is an option" [長年日記]

The other day, my daughter asked me "what do you set your mind when you get angry?"

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In my family, the information of

"unpleasant behavior of the worker at the company"

"unpleasant behavior of the store manager at part-time job"

"unpleasant behavior of customers who have been served"

"unpleasant behavior of self-centered guy's at school"

has been exchanged irregularly(It is exciting us).

And, by sharing mutual "anger", we are trying to communicate with each other.

Our plathome seems to be established by sharing of

not "love","compassionate" and "kindness"

but "hatred", "unreasonable" and "anger"

Of course, it goes without saying that this depends strongly on the character of the patriarch (me).

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Ebata: "I can not control anger, the word "Anger control" is at least an empty word for me."

Eldest Daughter(ED): "Is that so?"

Ebata: "I do not deny "Anger control" itself, but it is correct that "there are some people who can control Anger in the world"

ED:"Really?"

Ebata: "I believe that the idea of being able to control "Anger" may even hurt many people."

ED:"What does it mean?"

Ebata: "It will make us generate a self-disciplinary idea of turning the tables, for example, "I have to have "responsibility" in "myself" because I can not do it".

ED: "I thought that "I can not control anger, because of my lack of ability" for a long time.

Ebata: "Absolutely NOT. "The person who generates Anger (anger) is bad" is correct. Why should I bear the responsibility and obligation of the anger ?"

ED: "Well, how about when you get angry?"

Ebata: "There are a variety of ways and complicated calculations are needed, and I also have to consider the balance, however what I have do, is one."

SD:"What?"

Ebata: "Revenge" - this is an option"