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2018-08-07 For me, I think "I do not want the guy like me, to come to the funeral." [長年日記]

(Continuation from yesterday)

The existence of such a person can cause the crush of my family.

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Initially, I also thought that it would be good to prepare a "black list" in advance.

However, I am sorry to have such a troublesome task as a mourner of my funeral(It will be a fuss in the funeral hall)

Also, most participants will fear and decline attendance, because of the black list.

After all, the "funeral" will not be established.

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In addition, this black list is ironically returning to me like a boomerang.

"Where is the guarantee that you (Ebata) is included in the black list?"

For me, I think "I do not want the guy like me, to come to the funeral."

As a matter of fact, I think that people who are preparing for the black list or who want to prepare it in their mind, are not zero.

However, it is impossible for the mourner to guess the black list in the hearts of the deceased.

The conclusions drawn from these studies are that I have to make a reasonable effort by myself with a strong will, about my own death. that means,

"Rejection of funeral practice"

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When I told this story to my wife, she said

"it is a "direct burial" isn't it?"

(*)A ceremony with a few close friends, omitting wake and funeral

(To be continued)