When I was young, I was learning the piano, and I did (could) not read the score.

I remembered I heard the piano teacher's playing, copied it ear, and took it for the next week.

However, I still think that "I wonder why that piano lesson was so painful."

In order for finger work smoothly, I was ordered a training to continue to play the same score again and again. Needless to say, it was nothing more than pain.

"I don't want to become a professional pianist"

I thought so at the time, and I think too.

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A good skier is likely to take a beginner to a difficult slope (intermediate level or higher).

And, the good skier "helps" the beginner to "hate skiing", like reversing the cart and the horse.

I mean, a feeling of "I want you to love skiing" leads to the worst result.

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In another case, a good cook is likely to make a dish of eggplants and carrots for a junior high school girl who dislike eggplants and carrots, (hereinafter the same).

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You mean,

both a strong feeling of "making someone happy" and acts based on that feeling, are to "become unhappy with someone"

and, the conclusion drawn from here, is

"the feeling of "making someone happy" is arrogant and outrageous"

and, the thought is

"using this guy for making me fun" is subordinate and selfish.

(To be continued)