(Continuation from yesterday)

First of all, "long speech" is the worst.

First of all, we are not professional performer, so our verbal skills will never splendid.

Even the person who cannot evaluate oneself, try a long speech, it is going "hell" that is called "pain".

Secondly, "local talk" is also the worst.

In order to speak the "local talk", a speaker should have a special technique to spread the talk to other attendances to share the joy. However, there is few person who has the technique.

Finally, "apothegmatize" is the worst.

I become to burn the anger with thinking "Why I have to hear your useless sermon this private party?" "Above all, If you were me, do you really think that your sermon is "God-given ?" Don't be silly.

First of all, about 10% person in party hears a speech seriously, and less than 10% in the persons, is going to forget the contents of speech.( I think it might be smaller.)

This estimation can shows that the possibility of "amusing speech" is less than 1%, and the remaining more that 99% is "painful speech".

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I think all of these miserable speakers are missing the following.

"My words never arrive all right"

They lose the objectivity from start to finish.

They ignore layer of guest, unpleasure of hunger, and the topics of their speech are not consistency, concise and logical, and they never understand that they are annoying attendances.

"I don't know your job title, though, I cannot understand your title because of your terrible speech."

In my mind, the terrible speech is downgrading assessment of bridal couple, at last.

This is a sort of destroyer of bridal ceremony isn't it?

(To be continued)