(Continuation from yesterday)
I will propose the following.
How about holding year-end parities, New year's parties and other drinking parties on holidays ?
Of course, it is free attendance.
Even people who don't like drinking parties, can refuse to appear easily, on the excuse of family events, sermons, and wedding parties.
How do you think it ?
I think it's a bad idea.
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Just to make sure, I didn't "drink like a lord" at all, like this.
I enjoyed some small talks, went easy on the drinks, declined another party, and wrapped up the drinking party.
During the party, I kept my thought normally, had a facile tongue and was always on the alert against gossips against others and sexual talks. And totally I was what I have been a pleasant middle-aged gentleman.
However,
This my "alcohol bomb" is going to explode within from a half hour to one hour without previous notice.
This is tremendous horror.
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If I don't drink at a drinking party at all, of course, no problem will happen. But I (and other attendances) will not become happy.
Anyway, I have already sent a message of "A", and I would like to ask you to manage and/or monitor me.
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Though it might be difficult for you to understand the above situations, attending the drinking party after work,
is really horrible.