I am afraid that many prominent actors and actress passed away recently.
Whenever I hear these kinds of the news that some and upper generation’s celebrities pass away one after another, I feel that I am also going to pass away in the near future.
So I think something deeply in the present.
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The other day, my senior daughter attended a funeral, and was given a gift in return for a funeral offering. (It was the assorted laver.)
My second daughter asked me what that was, I explained about the gift.
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Daughter:"What kinds of the gift are there?"
Ebata:"Dried bonito, condiment, and tea leaves, for example"
Daughter:"Only foods?"
Ebata:"The food gift might mean that we should forget the deceased as soon as possible, and let us live our life in a constructive manner".
Daughter: "What gift do you want to give them in your funeral?"
Ebata:"I think that I am going to include my life in the gift"
Daughter:"H'm."
Ebata:"Extremely hot curry in vacuum packs is the best. I want to make and keep them by myself before my death"
In this step, my wife interrupted our talks.
Wife:"Absolutely NOT. I will be shamed"
Ebata:"I will have already passed away before giving others to the gift"
Wife:"It is displaying a lack of consistency that "forgets the deceased as soon as possible". I think that a worldly desire to keep your life with violent impression.
Ebata:"Oh..."
Wife:"For the second thought, I don't have to care, because I will pass away before you."