Both my wife, who had worked as examiner of TOIEC, and I, who had examined TOEIC came back home by car after getting together at the station parking lot,

thought we had been separately.

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In the car, I heard the song "Tell Me, Sister" of Nakajima Miyuki-san after a long interval.

Ebata: "Recently, I often hear her song in serial drama morning of NHK. When I hear her song, I think I have to get psyched."

Wife: "Kids ask me to stop her song in the car"

Ebata: "Why?"

Wife: "They said that "I have a feeling to be blamed by her song""

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She couldn't have put it better.

(Continuation from yesterday)

- Much money than others

- Stronger power than others

- Higher academic background and qualification than others

- more beautiful and cooler lover the others.

I think that these value will not change for more then 1000 years.

Because the background of these values are un-come-at-able, few count and understandable.

Against the above

Being crazy and enjoying alone

is more un-come-at-able and complicated absolutely.

But you don't have to check ratio of your happiness than other's at least.

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If successful, this way might be cooler to make you happier, because the cost might be lower cost than finding your friend.

So I, who became an adult, want to contribute the same message to younger people

"Stop finding a friend."

"Firstly you make you crazy."

(To be continued)

When my daughter explained "Gacha" to me,

When I explained "Twitter" to my wife,

When my wife explained "Youtube" to her aunt,

The above all worked hard.

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In conclusion,

"try it, to wanna understand it"

is an universal fact.

That said, I am afraid that an entertainment of IT field is more extremely unclear than of other fields.

In short, now, "I cannot understand your story!" is not a common sense any longer.

"You are wrong to understand it without trying it" is justice.

So, would you give up anything with me ?

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"If you don't understand it, leave it at that"

"We are just humans"

"Tomoichi"

(Continuation from yesterday)

Well, the problem is, who is to certify "half-killed" state. Of course, this is only "cats themselves".

Because most of us do not recognize us as "a victimizer of power harassment". This is clear that they always look vacant when they are pointed their power harassment in TV news.

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The following story is true from

I remember being surprised when I was a primary school student, I received a complaint from a teacher that I was ぶlying a girl in class.

Because I only recognized the extent that I was playing with that girl.

However, this is a genuine, 100% "bully" as it is now.

I know now that my behavior, dialogue, everything else, they were progressive forms of "bully".

Anyway, at this time, for the first time in my life I acquired the concept of "another person different from myself".

At this time, if the teacher did not point out that "I am doing bullying" to me, I think that acquisition of this concept was a later time To be honest, I will zoologically.

Of course, I have not been pointed out "publicly" from the outside at least as a perpetrator of bully.

However, in fact, I do not know what is going on - even if I have killed many cats in the box.

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However as I grew older, I turned to the victim side of bully.

Apparently, high school students like so-called "have a opinion about politics and society" had been certified as an object of bullying from classmates and others

Is that what we call "a man who does not read the air" now ?

However, since I was "lonely" from that time, I could not even feel "air".

Because of it, I was free and unhappy.

However, even though I never did anything to them, they have been attacking me (bully), just because they do not like it,

(To be continued)

My story of diary often comes early in the morning when I woke up in the early morning insomnia.

And definitely, then I forget it.

Unfortunately, I remember only what the story comes up to me.

I can leave it on your smartphone, however, if I do that, my consciousness will be completely awakened, and I will not be able to sleep again.

If that happens, I must have the worst physical condition that day.

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So I usually try to write the story on the paper at the bedside in the shortest possible time with hiragana characters.

However, there is a problem with this. When I look at the paper later,

(1)I don't know what is written

(2)I know what is written, but I don't know what

(3)I lose the paper

There are problems such as above, so this is an operational problem.

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I don't know why the story is coming early in the morning.

I hope the story also takes care of the arrival time, however,

If you complain too much, new story may stop coming. so I will stop it.

The proportion of "non-married" people is increasing in our country.

It's not that 'choosing to be 'non-married' is a happy choice,' but the fact that 'non-marriage' is a happy choice.

To begin with, a life of "living with others" is a hurdle in itself.

"living as a partner who is not under our management and control is a miracle (in most case)". I think we are finally realizing that this is a matter of course.

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"Non-marriage" reduces the birth rate, reduces the productive capacity, and diminishes the nation's strength -- okay, maybe so.

"What's the matter, even if so ?"

If a nation is decimated by the choices of its people, it is the fate of the nation.

At least I don't mind. I continue to learn, every day, to manage to live with it, even in a declining nation, while adapting to it.

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Apparently, there are a lot of people who are mistaken. "The state (especially the government) is an entity that provides services to its citizens".

The people are under no obligation to serve the state at all.

Why is the government taking measures against the declining birthrate? It seems that many people misunderstand this as well.

The reason why the government is taking measures against the declining birthrate is because the government wants to maintain the number of people that the current system of Japan needs.

For that purpose, the strategy to maintain the population, "Countermeasures against the declining birthrate," is the cheapest.

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However, the declining birthrate is inevitable.

If the declining birthrate is unavoidable, there is no choice but to change (degenerate) the system of Japan in the direction of adapting to the declining birthrate.

Although I do not say that such system changes are "easy", the declining birthrate is an inevitable part of civilization and history.

We need to be prepared to "change the current system" and, if necessary, "abandon the current system" without any hassle.

(Well, there is a technology solution, but I'll omit it this time.)

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However, I would like to call attention to those who chose "unmarried."

There is a tendency for people who choose "unmarried" to frequently ask their relatives' families.

Some people regularly do "on holidays, spend the day at their relatives' homes, playing with their children,".

To be clear, they are annoying.

In other words, "Read the atmosphere. this idiot!"

Why you are trying to enjoy only "at home" with ease, even you have selected "unmarried".

You have quite a nerve.

If you've chosen the "freedom" of "non-marriage," then swallow the "loneliness" that comes with it, too.

That's called a trade-off.

For example -- do you think any parent would welcome a single man who frequents a house with toddlers and school-age girls?

To be clear, it is "unpleasant", and more clearly, it is "scary".

In the first place, if you're 'a good old man, on your own, who can't even establish how to entertain himself,' you have no credibility.

It's hard to say that clearly in front of you (I'm an exception).

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Anyway, 'visits from non-married people are not welcome in the homes of married people'. Please guess.

Those who choose "Non-marriage is a happy choice" have a lifelong obligation to carry it out alone.

I won't tolerate anyone who "free rides" on the "happiness system" that others have worked so hard to create.

In response to the interview,

"I'm not so boorish or vulgar that I'd interfere in someone's marriage as a stranger."

If you made the above comment, please let me know.

I think there's more than one of them.

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I would like to introduce you on my blog, although I don't think the media companies will adopt your comment.

Of course, the Ebata Firewall will protect you.

I would like to shake your hand remotely.

I wrote about it here.

Even if the dissolution order is confirmed by the court, it just "loses its status as a religious corporation" and can continue its religious activities.

In fact, in the Sarin gas attack on the subway, an indiscriminate terrorist attack using chemical weapons in a metropolitan area, a rare occurrence in the world,

(1) 14 people killed

(2) 6300 victims

(3) Culprit: Aum Shinrikyo founder Shoko Asahara, real name Chizuo Matsumoto, and other Aum Shinrikyo leaders

(4) Matsumoto and 9 other Aum Shinrikyo leaders executed.

and (naturally) Aum Shinrikyo is ordered to disband.

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The Aum Shinrikyo side filed a lawsuit against this administrative action, citing "freedom of religion (Article 20 of the Constitution)" as the reason for revoking the dissolution order.

And, of course, the Supreme Court confirmed the dismissal of Aum Shinrikyo's claims.

What struck me was,

"Only 4 PDFs of the text of the decision"

Usually when I read a Supreme Court decision, I start out prepared to read 40-100 pages.

But as I read this mere four-page ruling

"Don't be stupid!"

"I can't keep up with them!"

I think I can hear the voice of the judges of the Supreme Court saying between the lines.

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The amazing thing is more to come.

The "Aum Shinrikyo" that caused this incident continues to operate as its successor religious organization, the Aleph(*).

(*) Well, they said "changing their principles (e.g., not having Chizuo Matsumoto as a guru)".

Of course, the Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology (Agency for Cultural Affairs) does not recognize Aleph as a religious corporation -- well, of course not.

The fact that a terrorist organization that mass murdered civilians is still continuing its religious activities, even though it has lost its juridical personality, is frightening, but we will come back to that later.

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Anyway, I think it makes sense for the "old name" Unification Church, in light of what it has done, to operate without a legal entity, just like Aleph -- no, I don't want Aleph to engage in religious activities, but....

The "Unification Church" should give up its corporate status here rather than face the above unseemly lawsuits.

And if they still want "money", they can do normal religious activities and continue to receive donations from their followers.

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Donations to the Unification Church, which has lost its juridical personality, are

"For example, if there is a donation of 100 million yen, roughly half of it goes to the Japanese treasury"

If managed well, it may become a "high tax paying religious organization (without legal personality)" that will be appreciated and respected by the Japanese people.

Still, I can assure you that they will never get "any respect from me (Ebata)".

"How to get your staff to 'mentally ill' in just one week and 'retire' in just one month."

I could write a book called the title.

Moreover, I think it is pretty effective.

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For example, if you want to give someone a cold, flu, or corona, just

"let them take a long bath in the water and then leave them out in the open."

they will get it at a high rate.

Mental illnesses can also be quickly afflicted by procedures as simple as this (I understand it well).

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"Daily Training to Avoid 'Mental Illness'"

This book will not sell well.

Please let me know if you are interested in writing or publishing this book.