I like to be invited wedding ceremony but I don't want to give a gratuity.

I'm stingy.

I am unbearable of exploitation at other's wedding ceremony. To be more precise, I cannot put up with dispossession of my two or more manuscript fees at sacrifice of weekend holiday and sleeping time.

Thanks to these claims in public, the invitation to the wedding ceremony has been ZERO for a dozen years perfectly.

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However, it is extremely rare, but there is also a wedding ceremony I want to be invited.

I want to meet a partner of my friend who had studied and worked with me in college and company.

I want to say one phrase,

"What are on earth you thinking?"

I am not going to say that.

(To be continued)

(Continuation from yesterday)

Now, a mail filter will do the same action again.

The other days, a news said that Mr.Linus, who is the developer of Linux Operation system, complained about a mail filter functions, because 30% of his needful mails were deleted by the filter.

Against SPAM mails, a mail filter is needed for our society, but at the same time, we have a risk of deleting requisite information.

This issue is a great social problem for a present communication infrastructure.

There might be also some truth in ordinal person's perspective.

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I have a little different view of this problem.

"I think that a rare opportunity is coming."

"Friends”, "bond", "community", "KY", "Smart-phone", "off site meetings", etc., etc...

It is me who have avoided using these terms thoughtfully.

And I think that this "mail filter" is the first step against digital supremacist.

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Making up the stupid phrase of "read and ignore",

Abandoning free of our spirits,

Insisting on "bond".

This "disgusting"

so-called, "the net culture", including above, I hope that the "mail filter" will give us a change to discard "the net culture".

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I think that I am different from stereotypical "culturati" who apt to speak "the network destroy emotional ties..."

I think that

I don't need "bond" not only in the net,

but also in the real world.

If someone needs help, I go to connect them with my will,

after helping them, I disconnect them and start to the next.

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Do I offer the confusing statement ?

Let me make a summary as follows.

- Don't be "bond"

- Go to connect

- Don't start anything if you need others who walk hand in hand

I think that as usual.

This is a story lacking in sanitation, and I hate to say this, but many people is related to this issue.

Quiet a few people use smart-phone and cell-phone while doing their needs.

even it is solid or liquid.

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A period of doing one's needs is extreme idle time for human being.

I think that It must be suitable time to jack off using smart-phone.

The idle time to do one's need is redoubtable.

I flatly say that my knowledge of English words, card game of the one hundred famous poems, an exordium of Tale of the Heike, and a preceding sentence of Constitution of Japan were established in restrooms.

So, I have already reformed the restroom of my house, like a small stock room, so called "the Ebata's library".

If my wife stopped it or I didn't get mad with "left a book in the bath room by daughter", I think that our bathroom would have reconstructed as "the second Ebata's library"

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However, the other day, I faced a scene in the technical workshop in Ota-ku, and I thought I might stop "using phone in doing to my needs"

(To be continued)

I put myself forward to work as the moderator of the Bon dancing competition.

(I just work at the day, and nobody wants to do this work).

However, today is

"downpour of rain"

With the bonus that the sound system "annihilates".

No way, I did not expect to run around with amps in the rain.

The six people of the construction company played the system restoration by reconfiguring and setting up in the rain.

--- Now, even if graduate from electrical engineering, I know it is not unusual for a electrical student to make just a wiring,

--- However, I who have a skill to make my home an "electronic fortress"

It does not mean there is nothing I want to say(I will not say it now).

(To be continued)

Today, new my column is released, so I take a day off.

Let's turn the world by "Number"(51) : Work style reform(10) "

"Elderly care nursing" is a compensation due to medical advances ?

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My father passed away on July 28 (Saturday) at 6 am.

I received a message from my sister in the train on the move to my parents house.

This article became the story of "the last spoon".

Once "kill oneself by jumping in front of a train" happens, we cannot do anything except the next train comes.

Needless to say, we have no responsibility for the accident and the delayed trains.

However, even if "no responsibility", I will be screwed with the accident.

If the destination is an exam hall or a job interview room, it will be the worst.

If it is a airport, the business meeting will be destroyed.

If it is a theatergoing, a movie and a concert, the ticket will be in vain.

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A person who killed themselves by jumping in front of a train, did an impulsive behavior, and had no intention to cause damages intentionally or neglectly.

The above is an principle of present judicatory.

I think that I can support the principle.

However, I wonder to whom we should go and get angry at the "paper-waste ticket".

There is a possible countermeasure, such as taking action (for example, arriving at the destination two hours ago) in anticipation of the accident.

However, We can not spend so much time luxury.

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Recently I think

"The concept of "move" itself is not good"

Now, much of the work can be done in a remote environment.

In fact, I know the president who does not have a fixed office (only there is a place for corporate registration) and operates a company with employees scattered throughout Japan.

I think that the work that doesn't work with remote communication environment is just "not trial until now"

In fact, I do not think that I reject sales activities with Skype (video phone).

"Examination” and “job interview" can be changed in the way and method as we can realize in remote environment.

I think it's quite difficult to play theater, movies and concerts.

However, by installing "a sense of reality system at home", there is also a way not to waste the ticket completely.

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It is a paradigm of "a way of life not to go out"

I named it "Social Shut-in"

I think that "Social Shut-in" might be the last counter-strategy against "kill oneself by jumping in front of a train"

The pyramid scheme focuses on having those who make that retail sale spelled out (written out).

What they spell out is not only the goal (quota), but also the policy of the group

"I have no value. It's the company that gives me value"

The pyramid scheme gimmickers make them chant it over and over again, have them write it out on a piece of paper, and then stick it on the wall.

This is really a reasonable "brainwashing".

The effectiveness of brainwashing will not increase if giving them information from the outside.

Brainwashing works by getting people to transmit information in their own words and letters.

Aside from that.

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Conference presentations are often done as company business (quota).

Since this is a quota, we may present research results even if we think we weren't good at them or weren't satisfied with the results.

But, of course, we can't just say, "we didn't do well" on a paper or in a presentation.

The competence of the researcher will be tested by "how to express this (without lying)".

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Now, in the run-up to the conference, I have to revise and rewrite my paper and presentation materials many times, and then practice my presentation.

If I am going to present in English, I have to come up with the shortest, most complete and understandable expressions possible.

Moreover, I have to be make a reasonable story, that is not broken down logically.

This is repeated over and over again.

This is actually a great "brainwashing" process.

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I rewrite papers more than 10 times, presentation materials more than 20 times, and practice presentations (especially if they are in English) more than 30 times.

So much for repetition.

"There is value in this research. The company has given me that opportunity."

And I will come to trust that feeling.

Thus, the researcher completes his or her own brainwashing.

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In summary, conference and research presentations are, in essence, "self-washing machines".

The number of new cases of new coronas in Tokyo has surpassed 3,000 people/day -- I think we'll get used to it soon.

When I crossed 100 people/day, or 500 people/day, I went blue cold, blue cold, blue cold -- now I'm tired of going blue cold.

In the news, doctors say, "Medical care is on the verge of collapse," but they do not say, "Medical care is collapsing.

However, if you don't tell us the specific image of medical collapse, we won't know.

It is not enough to say, "Look at the images from the U.S., India, and Indonesia and you will understand.

To be specific,

- What happens to patients who cannot be placed in the intensive care unit?

- How to prioritize the use of ECMO

- How do you decide to abandon a terminally ill patient (priority of life)?

- In Tokyo, which hospitals will be the first to suffer the collapse of medical care, and in what way?

If they don't announce something like that -- we can't win against the ongoing Olympic fever.

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To a group of athletes sharing their joy at winning a medal, nobody can say

"It will be 'dense', so please step away."

To the players hugging each other without masks, nobody can warn them,

"Keep a distance of at least two meters"

To begin with, they gave up "Awarding of medals" for avoid 'dense' didn't they?

Why doesn't the steering committee pay attention and the media stop reporting against "the medal winners solidifying and standing on the first place podium?"

I couldn't believe that it was "no audience". I wondered if it was the effect of the microphone adjustment that made me hear such loud cheering.

At least, I have never heard the announcement "Please refrain from cheering loudly" at the tournament site.

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Without even thinking about it deeply, the reasons are simple.

- Medias without such scenes can't make ratings, and

- Any member of the Diet who points out such a thing is sure to be voted out of office in the next election.

- A government cabinet that points out such things will see its approval rating plummet.

In addition,

- When you tweet something like that, you get flamed.

- When you wrote blogs with such things, you will not be able to earn PV.

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This side of the TV is "watching TV alone," while the other side is "celebrating" -- it's just not possible.

In the midst of the festivities, he/she dared to play the role of a hater and "splash water on people" ―― Such people were part of the "Tokyo model" I had in mind.

The "Tokyo model" I had hoped for is becoming "something I don't expect" every day.

When I got home, the first thing I did was open my mouth, I said to my wife

Ebata: "I met my grandpa (my father, who died two years ago) on the train today"

Wife:"What was happen ?"

She stopped her chores and looked at me with expectant eyes.

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When I was riding the Odakyu train to work after a long time, I was approached by the old man next to me.

"May I interrupt you?"

"Never mind"

"Does this train go to a station called 'Tsurukawa'?"

"Yes, it does"

"Is Tsurukawa the next station?"

"No, It will be the next stop after that."

"Not at the next station, I see."

"Not at the next station. I will let you know, so you don't have to worry."

"Wasn't it the station we just left?"

"No, it is the next station"

"The next station is "Tsurukawa"?"

"Yes, it is"

I tried to speak slowly, relatively loudly, and gently.

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"This station?"

"Yes, this is the station."

"Thank you very much."

The old man, then, tried to go out the door, stopped it, and went down through another door.

I was relieved to see the old man get off, but the doors had been open for a while, and he looked like he was about to board the train again.

Conductor! Close the door quickly! I shouted in my mind.

After the door was closed, I was worried while watching the old man standing on the platform without dazed-looking.

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Ebata:"So the old man reminds me of my fater in his laster years"

Wife: "Oh, I see."

Ebata: "It's short-term memory impairment; He can't remember what he were talking about a minute ago, and he repeat the same questions over and over in a short period of time."

Wife: "It's a common story."

Ebata:"It is natural that he wanted to check the station he should get off as soon as possible. He is just so anxious"

Wife:"Anyway, it was good to make old man get off the station"

Ebata:"Well, people in the train thought that "Why the man can repeat same things loudly again and again?", however it was a natural reaction for me to had been known the situtaions"

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It is right to teach children with the slogan, "Take care of the elderly.

It is good without any logic, and this is "No Problem" even at the brainwashing level.

However, it is difficult for children to understand the various disorders that occur as they age in the background, and it is even more difficult to understand them on a clinical level.

Ebata: "So, I think it's probably seniors in my position who understand 'let's take care of the elderly' in a tangible way."

Wife: "Exactly."

"Neglecting to get on the scale causes weight gain. "

This shows the effectiveness of the "recording diet," also described here.

The time to gain weight is when you are away from your daily routine.

Especially during the holidays, if you are away from home and in an unusual environment, the weight gain effect is already outstanding.

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We do not have scales in our travel destinations, or if we do have scales, we either do not use them or they are useless to us.

This is because different scales in different locations cannot be calibrated (deviation compensation).

I know from experience that "scales in tourist areas are set "loose" (they show a lighter weight).

Because, in a tourist attraction, tourists need to eat a lot of food in a pleasant way so that the customers can drop money.

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To get around the calibration problem, you could take your home scale on your trip, but no one would do that.

Then we can develop a "mobile weight scale," a scale that can be carried around.

The weight can be measured with one foot, so a one-foot size is sufficient.

I just did a quick check, and there are no cell phone-sized scales.

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Or rather,

"Weigh yourself with your cell phone"

It would be good if we could.

Future smartphones should be designed with the concept of "LCDs won't crack" and "won't break even if an elephant steps on it.

Pencil cases and glasses could do it. There is nothing that a smartphone can't do.

This field has been a strength of the industrial products of Japan.